April 23, 2008

Attracting Women

Since the dawn of time, women have been known as the most mysterious of creatures. With emotions that are sometimes difficult to read, determining what a woman is looking for can be a hard task indeed. This is because most women have set standards, but this doesn't mean you can't charm your way into her heart.

They usually want from you the same thing you expect from them. Cleanliness, good manners, an attractive appearance, geniality, and interest in her are all necessary to attracting women, and the start to a happy relationship.

Most women will rebuff a man simply because of his lack of cleanliness. Some men think nothing of body odor and poor hygiene. If you approach a woman unshaven, smelly and sweaty, chances are she won't be inclined to fall into your arms. If you have all-over body odor and sweat, take note: a spray deodorant can be the perfect end to a shower! This isn't an invitation to skip under-arm deodorant. 


 
Bad breath is a big no-no in the arena of attracting women. After brushing your teeth, keep mints or spray breath fresheners on hand. Foul breath is the number one killer in your campaign of attracting women.

Greasy hair or face will send her running into next week. If you're serious in your goal of attracting women, keep your hair and face clean.

Most women have and practice good manners. Men shouldn't make the mistake of not reciprocating the favor. A rude comment or act will immediately put off a potential girlfriend. Don't swear, make nasty jokes, interrupt her, or develop a sudden case of flatulence. When attracting women, a little bit of manners goes a long way.

Some men think that appearance doesn't matter, but attracting women requires a neat and clean appearance. A horribly mismatched wardrobe might repel a few good women. Dirty clothes get you an automatic dismissal.  Clothing should reflect your personality. This means no outfits that you're trying to use to fake a woman out. (Spandex doesn't cut it with women.) Just wear what you like, as long as it's clean, neat and fits properly.

When your transformation is complete, geniality and interest in her becomes the key. Be polite and friendly. Be a good conversationalist. Ask her about her interests. What movies and music does she like? Does she enjoy her work?. Don't grill her or do this to the point of getting too personal, or she may fear you're a stalker.

When you're ready to hit the clubs, coffee house or beach, go for it! Remember, attracting women is like driving a car. There are a thousand different things to remember. Just keep your cool, be confident and things should go smoothly. Once you've attracted her, don't just stop your newly learned behavior. Maintain these habits geared to attracting women, and you may have a beautiful relationship on the horizon.
 

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